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Well, I know there’s a reason to change

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As the year winds down to a close, here are a couple of things to keep in mind:

Smile on your brother: The tsunami victims who are still struggling to rebuild their lives, the people devastated by the South Asian earthquake, the strangers on the street. These are just a few examples of those whose stories have deeply touched me this year. You can find dozens more, if you take a minute to look around.

I’ll put my “heartless bastard” reputation to rest for a moment and admit that this article about building orphanages in Indonesia, post-tsunami made me tear up:

What does $1 pay for in Aceh? someone asked.

“What does $1 buy here?” Alyan asked back.

“Candy!” the kids said in unison.

“In Takengon,” Alyan said, “one dollar will pay for three meals for a child.”

Her answer drew silence at first. Then one of the children said, “Let’s send more.”

[You can read more about the orphanage and Give Light at www.givelight.org. Someday I will share my tsunami poem here, if you think you can handle the scrolling involved.]

Please continue praying for the Attari family. And send some prayers for my uncle – my aunt‘s husband – who passed away recently as well.

May the year 2006 be one of beauty and blessings.

Sense of style

Okay, I promise I’ll stop with the links soon and actually give all y’all a real deal post to read, but, for now, lemme just say I’m having way too much fun browsing this website called HEL LOOKS, which has photographs of street fashion from Helsinki, the capital of Finland [via Oh My That’s Awesome!]. Shut up, I know I have too much time on my hands.

Umm, no, I don’t follow fashion, really [I just do my own weirdly-randomcool thing], but this site is fascinating. Go see! Oh, and the only reason I thought to share this is because there’s a hijabi on there, too! And she’s a neo-con! In terms of fashion, apparently. She’s got too much black goin’ on, but I’m ’bout to steal her bag, seriously. And her jacket. Oh wait, I have too much black in my wardrobe, too. Damn.

p.s. I like this kid. And this one. Orange! Oh, and there’s one dude who’s wearing a sweatshirt with a fat hole in it because he cut out the logo. Right up my alley. I love it. Here’s to logo-free clothing. There’s one girl who says, “Hair has to be backcombed.” That’s right! (Or, if you’re me, never combed at all.) Also, who wants these boots? And computer keyboard cables as belts! Check the red and black, but all the pink is killing me. Here’s a strangely normal kid. And a girl and a guy and another girl rocking a kaffiyeh. Wow, just vow.

One last thing: Finnish people are seriously obsessed with Japan. And tight jeans. What’s up with that?

Alright, I’ll stop now. I’ve already gone through fourteen of the twenty pages. Seriously on crack. Which pics are you liking?

‘Cause if you’re not trying to make something better/then as far as I can tell you are just in the way

Hey, kids, how goes it? I’m still around, just trying to find things to do with myself besides chase the sunshine around the house. Somedays, it’s just so much easier to uploads photos to Flickr and deal with brusque titles/captions (or none at all) than it is to compose coherent pieces of writing for this joint. But I’m getting to it, don’t worry.

Meanwhile, for your personal amusement, I’ve found an index of mp3s of old TV theme songs [via Kottke]. I haven’t listened to them yet – I’ve just been scrolling through and giggling at the list – but Knight Rider and He-Man are on there, so what more can I say? Let me know how it goes.

Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, I’ve got two important things I need you to pay attention to (and I know you will, because you are rockstars):

ONE.
Wednesday, October 26, 2005 is Blog Quake Day [via Baraka at Truth & Beauty]. DesiPundit explains:

We request each of you to make a small post about the earthquake, and direct your readers to a suitable avenue for donating to the relief efforts.

Every single dollar contributed, multiplied by the vast numbers of bloggers, will go a long way in helping these people rebuild their lives. Our experience of the last few weeks showed us that, no matter how small our blogs, and no matter how few our readers, the words we write and the way we use our blogs can have far-reaching consequences. We learnt not to underestimate our powers. Let’s now use our powers for good.

A small list of relief organizations is available in DesiPundit’s post. You can also directly help relief efforts by buying hella slick tshirts through Chapati Mystery.

Please, please contribute, whether through weblog posts or direct donations or whatever you can do. It would be gorgeously rockstarish of you.

TWO.
A business associate of my father’s sent me the following email a couple days ago:

Your father gave me your email address. I spoke with him earlier today about an idea that my women friends & I have been kicking around. We’ve been noticing and discussing how pervasive fear and hatred (especially of other ethnic groups) have become in our society again in the last few years, and how many of the politicians have fed this fear to promote their own agendas. We’d like to do something at least on a local level in our community to stem this tide & help people of all ethnicities to relate to each other as people. Our thought is to start with a group of women in Sacramento. We’d like to invite women from most of the major ethnic groups represented in this area to start a multi-ethnic women’s group. Would you be interested in helping us form such a group?

I know you graduated recently (congratulations, by the way!) and are not up here on a regular basis, but if you’re in the area for other things we can arrange a time to get together that fits your schedule.

I am humbled by the ladies’ compassion and decision to engage in some form of active change, and am honored to have been asked to help in any way I can. I replied back with some thoughts, but I’m feeling a distinctive lack of ideas at the moment, mainly because I haven’t really sat down and brainstormed yet. I’ve had plenty of experience with women of color discussion circles and intercultural dialogue and alliance in college, but it’s been a few months and I’m worried I may have lost so much of what I learned through such experiences over the past few years.

So I need your help in brainstorming concrete thoughts and ideas regarding mission statement/goals/problem areas or issues that you feel a group such as this must focus on addressing. Anything and everything regarding intercommunity/intercultural relations and dialogue and safe spaces and women and diversity and all that fun stuff. I’m looking at all of you: Guys and girls, Muslims and non-Muslims, and whether or not you identify as “ethnic.” Apparently my comment box is seriously on crack, so drop me an email whenever you have any ideas. Help a kid out. I promise I’ll write back.

p.s. Once more, don’t forget: Blog Quake Day! on the 26th!

EDIT: Looks like my comments work again. I think. Otherwise, try the email. Thanks much.

Hurricane Katrina and disaster relief

My thoughts and prayers go out to those affected by Hurrican Katrina, those who, like cncz and Maitri, are worried for the safety of their family and friends, and for their loved ones’ homes and jobs utterly destroyed in the wake of the hurricane.

Maitri, especially, has been writing much about Louisiana, although she has safely evacuated to Houston, from where she has turned her weblog into a “Katrina resource full of neighborhood information, updates from the ground and opinion.”

Michael in New Orleans “is providing posts from his refuge in a highrise in the CBD. He has diesel-fueled generators and, amazingly enough, Internet connectivity” [via Anne Central and Looka].

Sunni Sister has some thoughts on both Hurricane Katrina and the nearly 1,000 Shia Muslim pilgrims who died in a stampede in Baghdad just a couple of days ago [via Sister Scorpion].

And wicked_wish has composed an extremely thought-provoking essay entitled “Disjointed thoughts on the socio-economics of disaster” [EDIT: via Saurav at Dark Days Ahead]. Go read.

When you are done, help somehow, if you can. Here is a good place to start.

For all my fellow bookworms.

Check this: The 100 favourite fictional characters… as chosen by 100 literary luminaries [via Kottke]

Tin Tin! Dr. Watson! God! Jane Eyre! Paddington Bear! Antonia Shimerda! Anne of Green Gables!

(I think I need to expand my literary collection, is what.)

And, in response: Character witnesses, as chosen by Independent readers

Sidney Carton, Holden Caulfield, Tom Joad, Rebecca de Winter, Jo March, Atticus Finch!, Eeyore!

(Ditto the parenthetical confession above. Good lord, why haven’t I read barely any of the other books on this list?)

And: My anti-Hero (because the bad guys are so much more interesting)

Also, because I am now obsessed with the Enjoyment>>Books section of this site:
– Interviews with authors whose books I want to read:

* Nuruddin Farah
* Eric Carle (one of my very favorite authors/illustrators of children’s books)
* Asne Seierstad
* Sarah Vowell (a.k.a Violet Incredible!)
* Nadeem Aslam (“Most ordinary Muslims say, ‘We just want to get on with our lives. Don’t identify us with the fundamentalists.’ But it’s a luxury. We moderate Muslims have to stand up. As a child I was really frightened of the game Hangman. I was terrified that my not knowing the answer was going to get somebody killed. As a grown-up, I feel that a game of Hangman is being played on an enormous scale in the world, and that sooner or later I’m going to be asked certain questions, and if I don’t give the right answer somebody is going to get hurt.”)

Plus, an argument: Independent versus Chain bookstores

Rabi’a al-Adawiyya "O God, the night has passe…

Rabi’a al-Adawiyya

“O God, the night has passed and the day has dawned. How I long to know if You have accepted my prayers or if You have rejected them. Therefore console me, for it is Yours to console this state of mine. You have given me life and cared for me, and Yours is the Glory. If You want to, drive me from Your Door, yet would I not forsake it for the love that I bear in my heart towards You.”

[Link via CharityFocus.]